Porn is easy. It's instant gratification. It doesn’t ask anything from you. No risk of rejection. No real effort. No growth. But that ease? That comfort? It’s a trap. Because while you're chasing cheap dopamine, life is passing you by. Your body’s getting slower. Your mind’s getting foggier. Your goals are getting dustier.
You weren’t made to sit in front of a screen with your curtains shut, rewiring your brain for instant hits of pleasure while the real world goes silent around you. You were made to build, to move, to fail, to connect, to live. And yeah, life out there is messy. People are unpredictable. Things take effort. But that’s where the meaning is. That’s where you are.
So seriously — shut it off. Walk outside. Touch grass. Literally. Stand in the sun and breathe. Do one push-up. Call someone you’ve been avoiding. Read something that challenges you. You don’t need a massive overnight transformation. You just need to start.
Because no fantasy will ever compare to the feeling of becoming someone you're proud of.